The soul, as defined by Webster, is the spiritual principle embodied in human beings. A tie has multiple meanings, but for this subject, a tie is to bring together family (unite). From these definitions, “soul ties” are when one person’s soul is united (tied) to another person’s souls.There are good’/healthy soul ties as well as bad/unhealthy soul ties. Examples of good soul ties include those of marriage as found in Ephesians 5:31, friendship, between Christians, and between parent and
child. Bad/unhealthy soul ties mainly are created from the lust for another person. Two examples of these are ties with friends who do evil, and ties from fornication, which is the main topic of discussion.
Why do people have sex before marriage? One reason is that people fall to temptation. Genesis 3:6 shows how Eve fell to temptation. She saw that the food was “pleasant to the eyes” and “she ate.” Guys and
females fall because of the assets from the opposite sex. These assets are alluring to the eye.
“Do you not know that he who is joined to a harlot is one body with her? For the “two,” He says, “shall become one flesh.” This scripture, from 1
Corinthians 6:16, clearly states that how ever many sex partners you have had, you are also married (joined) to that many. Soul ties outside of marriage are not good because sexual sin destroys a person like
no other sin. This is so because it is so intimate and has the greatest potential to destroy the body.
Ever heard of people having sex just to impress someone only to find out that the person they were intimate with left a STD in them? Have you even seen someone’s personality change after being intimate with
so many people?
People don’t understand that they receive spirits that may cause damnation to their life because of premarital sex. God has set aside sex for marriage. When we go outside of that limit, we open ourselves up
to spirits that our partners may have. Besides STDs, you can get spirits that deal with pornography, homosexuality, etc.
There is a way to break soul ties. Repentance to God is the way to break these ties. Try to remember all of the sexual partners you have had outside marriage. Now ask God to take away those ties you may have with that partner.