Lately a lot of the “testosterone” on campus have been curious as to whether or not I am attempting to preach the gospel of “boy bashing,” and to all those inquiring minds the answer to your question is no. As much as I love my ladies, I can honestly feel where my fellas are coming from.Recently, as I was talking to a good friend of mine about his female problems, I recognized a correlation between his relationships in the past and the past relationships with many of the men I’ve encountered. The basic male love profile goes a little something like this: In his past there was this one female (maybe his first love) whom he gave his heart to completely, he treated her like a queen and he was devoted to her. Then she does something to hurt him (lies to him, cheats on him, breaks up with him for no reason, moves away and never calls, etc.), and leaves his heart shattered into pieces. After this incident he vows to never open himself up to be hurt that way again, and often times he becomes a player for an indefinite period of time.
So ladies when you really think about it, maybe we are partially to blame for our “fellas gone wild.” Many of our male counterparts were raised solely by a woman and therefore initially have the utmost respect for the female species. So who are these mystery women who ruin potentially good men? And what in the world were they thinking when they did them wrong? Whoever they are they have made our jobs extremely difficult. Several men have built these stone walls with barbed wire fences around their hearts that often times lead us to believe they are heartless.
Honestly, I wish I had the answer to mend these hearts but I don’t. I just guess…..women can be evil.