Dating used to be very different. The typical date would consist of your date showing up at the door with a rose, and being nervous about your father’s ” bring my daughter home by 11 o’clock,” speech. Having sex on the first date was not even heard of. As a matter of fact, most women would not even consider kissing on the first date. Ironically, things have changed.
In today’s society, it seems that things that were considered morally incorrect in the past, are socially accepted. “I don’t mind giving it out on the first date,” says a student whom we will call Jane Doe. ” If I’m feeling my date, then I’m just feeling him,” she says thrusting her hip to one side, a symbol of her sassiness.
Jane Doe is part of the no shame in my game, sex on the first date crew that has hit the dating scene. When informed of Jane Doe’s comment, Krystle Simpson, a graduating nursing student here at Prairie View replied, ” Jane Doe should be considerably careful considering the rise in HIV and STDs among young adults.”
It is safe to say that most of the student body here at Prairie View agree with Krystle. ” Personally, if it’s that easy I don’t want it. If a girl gives out on the first date, I would have to question her self-esteem,” states Alvin Sumler who is currently studying consruction science. ” It’s just not right.”
Although it can be confidently stated that there are a lot of people here on campus who have the same views as Jane, no one else was willing to admit being easily hit with the mule. ” I think it makes you less of a woman,” stated Stephanie Williams, a senior education major. ” You have to leave something to the imagination.” ” I agree with Stephanie,” said freshman Cameron Thibodeaux. ” I’m not looking for sex on the first date. I just chill, ’cause if you worry about it too much, it will mess up your date.