This is a general overview of why men cheat while adding food for thought for those which this article applies to. These are the views of one individual. Just ask that you be open-minded to a moral issue.”Baby, we were just kissing. It’s not like we had sex or anything. I love you! I would never hurt you like that. Hmm, kissing someone else and denying that you didn’t do anything wrong; welcome to the game of infidelity (Men’s edition).
First and foremost, infidelity means unfaithfulness, and in our terms, cheating. There is probably no concrete answer to why men cheat, but one can only come up with reasons. Men practice infidelity for reasons such as: she cheated first, she’s constantly nagging him, or he has lost interest in her. Main reasons may include not being prepared, trophy hunting, and sex.
Men may cheat because they are not ready for the type of relationship a good woman brings. This woman takes care of her man while helping to nurture the relationship. But some men are too childish and immature to know how good they have it; until she is gone of course.
The Bibles states in 1 Corinthians 13:11, “When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child, but when I became a man, I put away childish things.” Some men have not learned how to stop acting like children in relationships. “What her eyes don’t see, her heart doesn’t feel.” It is time out for playing games.
“Yeah, my girl is something special, and she really cares for a brother, but I know I can pull that shorty right there.” Other men just can’t leave the thrill of trophy hunting alone no matter who they are with. The desire to boost their ego and an imaginable taste to gain approval from the boys are why men trophy hunt.
What better way to prove to yourself and your boys that you are a cheating man? Who wouldn’t want to be proud of that? This trophy hunting man has a variety of flavors he likes such as: Asian, black, white, Latino, thick, petite, etc. They even run the risk of getting unwanted flavors such as: AIDS, syphilis, genital herpes, and gonorrhea.
No one deserves to be treated as if they are nothing even if they deserve it. Cheating on a woman, especially a good one just proves how jacked up a man’s character is. Trust is gained through the actions of others. All you cheating men are breaking hearts, degrading your worth, making it extremely difficult for the next man who comes afterward, and most importantly embarrassing yourself before God. When will we give our women some men to be proud of rather than having them wondering how long will it be before he cheats.
“Bread of deceit is sweet to a man; but afterwards his mouth shall be filled with gravel.” Proverbs 20:17
Stay tuned for “The Game of Infidelity: Women