A couple of issues ago, many were exposed to the men’s edition of the game of infidelity. This issue brings a general overview of why women practice infidelity while providing viewpoints for those this article applies to. Once more, these are the views of one individual. Just ask that you be open-minded to a moral issue.Believe it or not, women have similar desires to be unfaithful as men do. Many women use the clich that “all men are dogs.” But in today’s society, there are a great number of “dogettes” around playing the same game. There is probably no concrete answer to why women cheat, but one can only draw conclusions. A woman cheats for reasons such as jealousy, manipulation, and because her man lacks a particular quality she notices in others. Major reasons include not receiving the attention she wants and vengeance.
Attention, according to many females, is probably the number one reason why women cheat. The type of attention a woman wants differs for each individual. Some want sex and pleasure while others want security and to feel loved. Others are just either bored, lonely, or someone tempting graces their path that appeals to their appetite.
So, what does a female do to quench this thirst for attention? Wait, did you hear that? “Knock, knock. Who’s there? Mystery. Mystery who? The mystery man she keeps on the side. When a female’s ace fails to provide that attention she thrives for, she finds a willing soul to get it from.
The Bible states in Psalm 107:9 that, “For He satisfies the thirsty and fills the hungry with good things.” For those females who are derived from the attention their mate fails to give, know that contentment comes when you are willing to give up everything for God.
Some women use vengeance as a reason to be unfaithful. Even with that being said, for some, this vengeance is sort of a delayed reaction to being cheated on. Meaning, that some women who use revenge as a source of their unfaithfulness, do so after the second or third time their man has cheated on them. Such a woman hesitantly welcomes back the offender even though he cheated on her. Knowing she can’t fully trust him, she gives the guy another opportunity to not break her heart.
Women who have been bitten by this feel as if they are free to cheat now, especially after the guy has broken the supposed commitment. They choose to give him a taste of his own medicine. But the Bible tells us that a vengeful mind leads individuals to go outside their character. Let God take care of those who do you wrong.
It is baffling to see how some women of today are turning to the tactics that have been used by men when it comes to being unfaithful. Turning to God and knowing how Jesus and other men of the Bible walked their lives gives you the characteristics of a good man most women want. Just because Dewayne has a quality you want that your man doesn’t possess, does not give you the right to cheat. Nor can you have your cake and eat it too when it comes to solving your attention problem. All you cheating women are doing is bringing more pain into your life, creating emotional stress, and disappointing God. God wants you all to become that virtuous woman as described in Proverbs 31:10-31.