Oh, no you didn't!

Why is it that we, as people, are so concerned about our appearance when it comes to pleasing the eyes of the opposite sex?
We do not base our appearance half of the time according to our self standard, but how the world should see us.
Those who do find that changing themselves more than improving themselves based off what others prefer, end up constantly changing more often than they are comfortable with.
This leads them to becoming a vanity slave. Oh no, you didn't! This is why in the pool of beauty, the content is measured by how deep the person is willing to seek. Not by the flashiest, finest or trendiest him or her appears.
What about what lies between their shoulders?
The outside facade seems to ignite a relationship that is only meant to please what's between our legs.
Oh no, you didn't. This isn't true?
Why do the women wear the thinnest of the thinnest tights to show off their butts or the crop tops that highlight every roll her donut shop has produced?
Oh no, you didn't! Or even worst, the weaves that costs more than your rent and cause you to still have no edges?
Oh no you didn't!
Honey, just because they make it, doesn't mean you need to buy it. Everything is not meant for YOU to wear. Oh no, you didn't.
And guys, why is that YOU ALL talk down on women like ya'll don't have flaws of your own.
We know those shoes don't really fit you, you don't "smash" every girl you claim and you're not who everyone thinks you are because you are "100".
Oh no, you didn't!
Bottom line, we all need to just satisfy ourselves and stop worrying about what everyone else is doing or what they prefer.
We need to live for us. We were born alone, that's how we'll die.